I'm Getting Married!

A lot has happened since my last post.  On February 13th of 2015 I met my soulmate (definitely didn't know  it at the time).  I dated him for 3 months before deciding he wasn't the "one" for me, dated others for three months, then came to my senses and found out he became "the one."  No idea how it happened, but we started back dating in November and he proposed April 2nd (of course I accepted), now we're getting married November 26th.  I can't wait!

We chose a theme of Lord of The Rings, and colors of blue and white.  Since I have never looked good in white, I am wearing a blue dress, and J gets to dress up like Aragorn.  My father walks me down the aisle as Gandalf the White, and the groomsmen are all the fellowship, while my matron of honor and bridesmaid are dressing up as women from Lord of The Rings and The Hobbit.

I got incredibly luck to have such an awesome family, as my matron of honor is also making the wedding cupcakes (instead of a cake I'm having tiers of cupcakes with the tree of Gondor on the chocolate ones and the apple pie flavored ones have the crest from the hobbit cloaks).  My Mother is helping me increasingly, my brother is dressing up as Legolas, and my sister is my matron of honor.  My dad built the arbor we're getting married under, and everyone has been amazing.  My aunt is directing our wedding, and I have not figured out the officiant yet, but one of my mother's friends will play the flute as we go down the aisle.

I'm so lucky.

Song Of The Day

This song got me through a saturday working at Bojangles, it helped me time my motions and helped me not to think about the idiots I had to listen to over the drive-thru intercom.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cON1VmHX1jE

Song of The Day

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EUneC3h9yUA

Found this song on youtube the other day and so far have made a few deductions, I wish guys had more alcohol available to them or maybe just some balls.  The reason I go out with few white guys is because every other race just asks me out more.

Song of The Day

I've really been into nightcore lately, so I am just going to start putting up songs to inspire my happiness or feelings of empowerment once a day every day from now on.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qoWK5WgafPU

An awesome song to listen to the nightcore version of Bruises and Bitemarks by Good With Grenades.

Hypocrites

What is the definition of a "slut"?

I looked it up on dictionary.com and this is what I got :

slut  (slʌt) 

— n
1. derogatory  a dirty slatternly woman.
2. derogatory  an immoral woman.
3. archaic  a female dog.

Then I looked at another definition from thefreedictionary.com, and this is what I got:

1.
a. A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous.
b. A woman prostitute.

2. A slovenly woman; a slattern.

I was prompted to look this up after a conversation between some people at work that consisted of the words "the slutty girls are ruining the world for the rest of us."
This conversation was being had between a female mother who is not married and never has been, as well as a 21-year-old female that lives with her boyfriend and has a step-son through said boyfriend.  

As slut is synonymous with whore, one can assume that it has some similar connotations.  The definition of a whore during bible times was any woman who had sex outside of marriage, in high school it was any female who had sex with anyone at all, and now in college it seems to be any female that another female dislikes, it is just the go-to word when someone cannot think of any other insult to place upon a female.

People deemed me a slut in high school constantly, while I was actually a virgin all throughout high school, though admittedly my clothes showed off my body, I did not get sent home at any point in time for a dress code violation during high school.

In conclusion, it is smartest to not call anyone else a slut, as you will be deemed one yourself as well as have earned the titles "hypocrite," and "bitch".

Male currently watching me

I am currently observing this guy from my peripheral vision, he has been watching me at this library for at least ten minutes, he's not exactly being discrete about it now, well more like he thinks he's being discrete.  These guys can be such idiots at times, I am acting like I haven't noticed him because I am not interested in this particular guy, he keeps acting like he's staring at his laptop but it's painfully obvious he's been watching me, I think he noticed my earbuds and that's why he hasn't made a move yet, but there's also the fact that he has a drink, and is in a corner where he's less likely to be seen.  It's really interesting, a nice psychological observation.  I'm pretty sure he thinks I haven't seen him yet, he looks a little young.

I am hoping to see the 24 year old today in music appreciation, maybe he'll entertain me enough to stay awake, I am always so bored in MUS, counting the people falling asleep gets really old.  I have been listening to "Dirrty" by Christina Aguilera today, awesome to dance to.  Look in my next post for the top ten dirty songs playlist.

Signed Up for OkCupid.com

When I first looked at the list you could see why most of these people had resorted to a dating website, very few were in shape or good looking, but some of the nerds are interesting.  The conversation's better than omegel at the very least, and no pictures of someone's phallus with googly eyes, something I never want to see again.